Unlike fitness or career coaching (which can often be accomplished in just a few sessions), intimacy coaching requires trust, deep exploration, and experimentation--all of which take time to cultivate.
My approach is not one-size-fits-all. By taking the time to know you on a deep level, I tailor a program individually suited to your specific desires. I will challenge you to rethink the stories you’ve told yourself, and those you’ve been told by the world around you. I will encourage you to push back against conventions in order to find your greater truth.
I will help you love your body, have great sex, and experience deep intimacy, shame-free.
I served as as Deputy District Attorney for Los Angeles County for 14 years, and specialized in cases of sexual assault and domestic violence. I continue to serve women as both a women's intimacy educator and certified coach. I help women love their body, experience deep intimacy, and have great sex, shame-free.
"When you work with Rena, get ready to have the ground move under you. She manages to help you uncover the things that hold you back from the intimacy and expansion you want to experience, both personally and with your partner. It's NOT easy work. It requires self reflection, re-framing damaging habits, and practice reinforcing new habits to help sustain change. This is the work that every woman deserves. I wish this work was mandatory while we were growing up." -Erika B.
"I came to Rena questioning whether I wanted to stay in my marriage. My husband and I were going to weekly couples therapy, but sex and affection was a block I couldn't push through because of sexual abuse I'd suffered as a child. I had no idea what I wanted or how to even begin talking about sex. I couldn't enjoy oral sex (or even long hugs, for that matter). Rena gave me permission to change, and I did. I no longer feel like my sexuality was robbed from me as a child. I don't see sex as a wife's duty anymore; it's something I want and know how to ask for. My husband and I are having the best sex of my life without any limits or insecurities. We hug every day. For the first time in my life, I feel true intimacy. Thank you, Rena, for saving my marriage." -Kelly K.